Insecurity and seeking external validation destroys relationships and leads to the dark side.
Personal independent realistic confidence with oneself helps with having better relationships.
Manipulate yourself only, by this I mean exercising emotional control when expressing certain things.
Don’t manipulate others.
Don’t let yourself be manipulated by others.
If you gotta manipulate people your doing it wrong.
But people manipulate people all the time.
So your best defense against manipulation is internal self belief.
Your best tool for determining authenticity is by being authentic yourself. That is how you filter.
Getting through a breakup?
You both deserve better…
Hope that helps
Testing people comes from insecurity….if you feel that you need to constantly test someone you’ve already lost the relationship.
If you are in a relationship to validate your self esteem or self image you are doing it wrong.
And don’t make things into new problems by weighing both the negative and positive perspectives on circumstances. If you are unsure of what something signals and don’t know how to interpret it….being delusional isn’t good nor is always taking it things negatively…I don’t have an answer for this scenario but maybe further hone your ability to read people.
But don’t go looking for certain problems so much that you inadvertently wind up inventing them.
Don’t play social defense…all the time…got to have social offense sometimes.
Theory only gets you so far gotta have content
The content is your life
Overthinking it.
If they really like you they will break their own rules…
If nothing you do works or if nothing about you is it, then they don’t like you…save your energy move on….and be your best self.
Personal excellence.
Be a protector and provider…
And cock rock.
Be comfortable in your masculinity. Fragile masculinity is a turn off.
All your exes are not narcissists….
If you bring out the same reaction in people then you got to fix it and do things different in order to be treated better.
Don’t be a people pleaser….instead set boundaries.
I like em thicc like extra thicc.
Apparently people don’t know how to let go.
You think guys have guys jumped for stuff like even looking at their women…
Some women have women jumped for pursuing their man
Men and women both objectify each other.
Gotta have game to break through those various barriers of objectification.
Self worth…
Considering the type of person they are and how they conduct themselves
The people that complain about it on social media have difficulty in adjusting to handle such adversity or lack critical thinking skills.
Stop believing in/fantasizing who you want them be and start accepting and respecting them for who they actually are.
Do they care/think about you the way you care/think about them…
Thoughts to give things context.
Primal romance…
That is the key.
Don’t let someone who could care less dictate your value or influence your self esteem.
Down with the thiccccnessssss lmao
Can’t tell if Weird Al or original band with a lisp.
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Had a few one night stands…
No follow up dates.
Lame.
Weak men cry about the evilness of women
Foolish men overestimate women’s innocence.
Foolish women fall for scumbags
Bitter women condemn all men
The answer
Want to crack the code of the opposite gender
Look in the mirror.
Only you can help yourself.
Sidenote
People gatekeep.
But it doesn’t take much to figure out that what is being gatekept isn’t anything special or like a universal truth.
My girl is way hornier than me and it’s messed with my sex drive. I guess it’s a nice problem to have, and she’s pretty understanding about things because I rock her world when I’m in the mood. But yeah, not on my bingo card 6 months ago.
As far as “cracking the code” goes… they’re the same but different. Get out of that thic girl rut and date a professor or something. Meet someone who gels with your brain and make the dick fit later.
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Women play drama
Men be players as a result.
Men be players
Women play drama as a result.
Catch 22 ouroboros.
Complaining about it is pointless, it comes with the territory