Been getting caught up in imaginationships.
Not good.
Talking to a few women and it is like you think you got something when in reality it’s just talking…
Also gotta expand my conversation topics.
Also the thicc thing moving beyond that as a primary focus.
Thicc butts are awesome but not the only thing that matters…
Made out with two different women on the same night.
Passed up on a threesome with two women because they were both to drunk to be coherent.
Been making an effort to not focus on thicc butts and moreso the character of the person…
My judgement of the Character of the person is subjective…
My liking thicc butts is also subjective…
There is no objectivity just not being selfish with my subjectiveness. And not imposing my subjective liking of thicc butts as an obligation to be meet by others.
Because respecting anothers personal autonomy.
Meaning I won’t force someone to get a bbl and I don’t want someone to get a bbl for me.
Blah blah blah.
Relationships are partnerships…not being each others fuck mannequin.
Women know that men want coochie which is why they gatekeep it…
The whole reverse psychology is asinine…just believe in yourself…
Women wear makeup to look pretty for guys…and to have confidence.
So men gatekeeping penis from women…isn’t gonna work…
Gameplan just level up personally…and hope that they like you enough that when you shoot your shot they accept you.
Maxing out personal stats like you do in an RPG…also helps
Expand your knowledge.
Learn skills
Hone your skills.
Be healthy.
Work towards being financially secure.
Cultivate relationships like a garden.
Have a life.
Reputation matters social status matters…because it opens doors…character though is what gets you through them…
Etc…
Control stems from insecurity.
Insecurity causes people to be controlling and manipulative and defensive…and even be toxic…etc..
But sometimes when your partner doesn’t value you nor respect you or your relationship than you either gotta fix that or break things off
Both men and women exhibit broken behaviors…they are both equal in their capacity to be toxic, have broken behaviors or be scumbags.
Women want to follow a man they respect and one who can effectively lead.
Red pill is only good for seeing through bullshit and to not be gullible to people that are using you and are opportunistic.
It’s not good for being your whole personality or for irrational weak hate whining about double standards.
Feminism certain schools of thought even state that a man should be a leader, protector and provider…and be resourceful meaning being able to troubleshoot problems and navigate difficult situations as well as providing security.
People often get full of themselves with both the red pill stuff and feminism…and you gotta give the appropriate reality checks
But all relationship dynamics are different…it’s a partnership not a power dynamic…so make sure you pick someone that will be good to you and you to them…and are competent in their lifestyle.