Dont perform for approval in order to fit someone elses mold…be authentic
Have personal standards based in reality
And dont expect your personal fantasies to become a reality…instead accept reality and figure out what you want in reality.
BREAKING NEWS - - - - - - - -ROMANCE UPDATE
Nothing is going on with us, which is fine. That dude creeped on her so much last month she has no interest in anything. She told me and I was pretty much like “Thanks, guy. 
” Back to normal lol. It was a fun while it lasted, though! 
Went on a practice date with a friend…nothing happened…but
Still good to shake off the rust and refreshing hanging out with someone in real life.
As opposed to sifting through the hay looking for the needle and not finding the needle.
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Fuck the virtual online dating bullshit.
I feel like im interacting with bots…
Also too many scammers wanting money…
What makes men and women think that its ok the way they treat each other…lol.
Public service announcement…
Feminism isnt a way to get laid or a way to compensate for being a creepy pervert.
Accountability for both men and women.
Yeah and being culturally engulfed by anime and video games and doing drugs all the time in an effort to escape reality…doesnt help.
Romance and dating is like a social dance…gotta be good at the social dance in order to get laid.
In other words be socially stimulating and dress good have good hygiene and be somewhat athletic…and have your life together and be a good judge of character.
Finding cracker crumbs in fat folds and regularly smelling of cheese is a turn off and a commonality amongst them megathick women…
But that ass though…cant have it all…ill put up with it because the pro outweigh the cons…
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As a fellow connoisseur to another, where the hell are you finding these? Out by the dumpster? 
I’ve fucked a lot of fat women, and I’ve never had that happen before, even on a metaphoric or spiritual level. Not saying it would be a dealbreaker, but I’d probably have to reconsider my life choices after that event. Or just start with a shower routine next time.
Hey, that’s not a bad idea. Just be like, “I need to shower – you can totally join me, it’ll be fun!”
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Showering is a dealbreaker but sometimes air gets compacted…and after everything is done the air does get released.
Should of clarified my bad.
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Dating sucks…
Something irks me i dont like the feeling of marketing myself in asking randos if they are interested enough to give a fuck about me and my life…
Also dealing with lots of fake people trying to take advantage of others
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Women have a roster of guys giving them attention and they pick and choose who get the most and who gets what kind of attention
Guys have a roster of women that they divy up their attention to..
Whatever.
Went on a date…
I was doing all the talking…trying to pull the conversation out of her.
The effort has to be mutual…if the other person is boring how am i supposed to be engaging and interesting…give me something to work with…lol.
Lately im trying to be a source of energy instead of merely reacting to other peoples energy.
I feel like its healthier to be a source of energy because reacting to other peoples energy sort of results in you losing your own sense of self.
Negging…
Its pua bullshit, its making the person feel insecure with themselves in their relationship with you…
It chips away at their self esteem so that they feel dependent on you relationship wise.
Imo this is such assinine behavior…
Anyone who does this is a fucking idiotic loser.
I went to the movies with 2 friends the other day, one of them being my potential future partner. The movie was really good. I don’t know if that was because of the actual screenplay or if they were sorta leaning into me from their seat. At one point I think they might have even tried to hold my hand, but they kinda pulled away on their own accord. I just wanted to lean towards them as well… Grah…
Clearly we both have something for each other but I don’t want to ruin any friendship or bonding by suddenly dropping the “I like you“ bomb to early.
Great news is, I might be going on holiday at the end of the year and they’re invited. That means we get a whole room to ourselves. If we’re together before then, great, but if not then it might be a chance to try something. And no, I’m not talking anything more than spooning, even though I could.
Update
I did it today, I told them how I felt. Of course, we are still new people to each other, so it wasn’t a definite and straight yes, but the idea of being in a relationship with one another is circling like a hawk. We both decided to give it some time first, how long I have no clue, but It feels like a huge weight of my chest having said that I like them, and hopefully they’re more confident with making any advances now. Well, hopefully we’re both confident.
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How to not be creepy…
Stop making everything about sticking your penis into their vagina.
Not saying to castrate yourself into a being without any sexuality because that would be absurd.
But its the nuances of how you do things. Even though they wont admit it. They want sex as much as you do…but they show it differently and you gotta have the correct energy.
Being extraverted also helps.
That being said not everyone is worth your time.
So choose wisely
Dont aura farm…also because trying look cool by breathing is not doing anything.
Its a numbers thing…
Discern people by their character…not by solely looks.
Meaning if you casually hookup with a few uggos…its ok as long as they are of good character and as long as you both understand that its just a casual hookup.
For having oneitis may hold you back.
Whenever i hear people say that they want a high value man but at the same time complain about gender equality and mediocrity whilst also having an issue with 50/50, aka sharing life responsibility…
To me its a big red flag.
I cant take such a person seriously…nor respect them because they contradict themselves…and it screams that they cant handle any responsibility.
2 weeks in I fell for a scam. Limited the losses, but I need a new credit card.
Dating is fucking hard bruh. Learning a lot of tough lessons.
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Damn that really sucks. But someone nice is looking for you out there somewhere…
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