Probably can’t even call it “Proper” or “Mature love”,
But I’ve dated a few people before. To be honest, it’s not as flash as most people think it is.
Most people say they like having a partner for “romantic interaction” but-
“Romantic interaction” isn’t really a thing…?
Love is more for when somebody understands and cares for you… To be honest, if somebody is attracted to someone because they like them for their body or for another specific reason I don’t really think they’re actually in love.
I’ve gone through like 3 partners, I don’t think any of them really clicked with me. (Well, one of them was just a horny fucker…) If I’m going to date anybody, I just want them to get me… It’s not even about looks or how good they give head, I just want to feel love towards them for the same reasons they do towards me.
Being demiromantic does NOT help, because you start to fall for all of your FRIENDS, too…
If anybody is looking for advice, don’t jump into dating somebody because they look pretty or talk with a sexy accent. Get to know them. Calm the waters first, because that’s exactly what I DIDN’T do, and probably why I broke 3 hearts in one year.
Just be yourself, drink a beer before the date to get you to loosen up your tongue, dont over think things (from guy to guys). Be fun, talk, what is the worse that can happen? If she says no, go to the next one, this will help you be experienced in rejection, which is the best thing, seriously, not caring if you would get rejected is a super power, when harnessed they will automatically come to you.
…and then you’ll get laid a̶l̶l̶ t̶h̶e̶ t̶i̶m̶e̶ once maybe twice but there is a chance they will c̶o̶m̶e̶ t̶o̶ l̶o̶v̶e̶ y̶o̶u̶ f̶o̶r̶ w̶h̶o̶ y̶o̶u̶ a̶r̶e̶ see through your bullshit and find you tolerable.
I went out on a “date” recently and realised my mistakes afterward.
I didn’t really want to get with them tbh, but…
When you get there, just greet them like you would a good friend, whatever that may be for you… It’s best to be yourself and if they don’t like it, then that’s just the luck of the draw.
Listen to them instead of yapping about yourself, but don’t not talk about yourself. The more they know about you the stronger your bond will be.
Try not to go on any huge fucking tangents… Why are you all looking at me like that?
But whatever
Don’t take too much dating advice from gay hardcore producers like myself!!!
Me and my closest friend MIGHT be courting each other. Too early to say, and I’m taking it VERY chill. If it ends up being nothing, no worries from me.
I had a bit of an existential crisis last week when I realized what was going on, and an old fling of hers started hanging out with her again now that the weather has warmed up. Turns out she can’t stand the guy, and it turns out I’m not hating whatever is going on between us. Fuck it, just roll with it. Life’s too short.
