Probably can’t even call it “Proper” or “Mature love”,
But I’ve dated a few people before. To be honest, it’s not as flash as most people think it is.
Most people say they like having a partner for “romantic interaction” but-
“Romantic interaction” isn’t really a thing…?
Love is more for when somebody understands and cares for you… To be honest, if somebody is attracted to someone because they like them for their body or for another specific reason I don’t really think they’re actually in love.
I’ve gone through like 3 partners, I don’t think any of them really clicked with me. (Well, one of them was just a horny fucker…) If I’m going to date anybody, I just want them to get me… It’s not even about looks or how good they give head, I just want to feel love towards them for the same reasons they do towards me.
Being demiromantic does NOT help, because you start to fall for all of your FRIENDS, too…
If anybody is looking for advice, don’t jump into dating somebody because they look pretty or talk with a sexy accent. Get to know them. Calm the waters first, because that’s exactly what I DIDN’T do, and probably why I broke 3 hearts in one year.