You pay for the app or is it free…
This one is free, haven’t felt the need for paid features which are supposed to lead to more matches. Same people, just more of them. I already have to use a notes app to keep them all straight, I don’t need more.
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Damn, she sounds incredibly interested though. That’s never a bad thing
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Being upfront in the profile on the dating apps…
Less matches, but saves yourself the trouble, time, and energy.
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Had another date today. It was really last minute, I had just had a really great conversation with her last night and I woke up with her still on my mind this morning, so I asked if I could take her somewhere and we were together like 3 hours later. Super cool of her to make the time for me, I think. I want to plan something better next time, but we both had a good time today because she texted me like 5 minutes after we left to say we need to “keep in touch”. Keep in touch my ass, I want to see her again.
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I need a thicc woman in my life.
People dont exist for them to be a receptacle for all your feelings…
They arent the missing peice that will solve your feelings so that you can feel better.
Gotta be able to do stuff when your not in the mood for it.
If you are a slave to your feelings you simply wont survive life and wont have lasting relationships because youll be too caught up in all your feelings.
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You guys are probably going to laugh at this, but I saw two women over the weekend. One was the one I saw last weekend (D) and the other was a new one (M).
I’m honestly having a hard time figuring out which one I want to get serious with, and I do not want to lead either of them on. M is… really easy to have deep conversations with. We see eye to eye on a lot, and she is wicked smart. Might be smarter than me. It’s kind of scary how attractive I find her. But, she has issues, said point blank she’s not all there (I’m pretty sure some un-diagnosed form of ADHD based on how she described it). She doesn’t drive (and chose to live in LA, one of the most car-dependent cities ever), she doesn’t like crowds/people, is a recluse. But she likes me a lot (she’s very blunt, so I’m not guessing here), and I have a blast when I’m with her. I’ve kept chatting after the first date, and the conversation has stayed amazing. I called her just to talk last night and ended up making plans for next weekend. We’re going to watch the sunset from a hike on Saturday, her idea of spending time together.
After two dates, I’m starting to get the measure of D. She is more reserved and balanced, not as… forward as M, but she is opening up. She shows she cares with actions more than words, and I really appreciate that. Our conversations are not as deep as with M, but I don’t think this bitch be crazy either. I think if I stick with D doing things like I am now, it would build steadily into a healthy relationship. I’m only realizing now that I don’t know as much about D’s interests/hobbies as I do M, so I will have to work on that. I guess the best way to describe her is my favorite part of our recent date was at the end of dinner when we were boxing up our leftovers and I had a plate of fried rice that I was trying very unsuccessfully to chopstick into my box. She just reached across the table and started helping - not doing it for me, helping - , and I was really taken by that. I know it’s a little thing, but it’s what I’m still thinking about 2 days later. I have to come up with plans for her this weekend, because both of us were already talking about things we wanted to show each other on the next date, I just haven’t made the plans yet.
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Our expert weighs in - “Son, the only real question is: do they like each other?”
More seriously, I had a knack for picking the “wrong one” when I was younger, and I most probably fluked some very good things… If I could go back to that time, facing such a situation again, knowing what I know now, I’d just keep seeing both and see how it develops. As long as you haven’t been intimate and there is no promise for exclusivity, why choose?
Thing is with relationships, you may have the apparently most suited companion at hand, but what if you’re sexually incompatible? That’s usually the end of it. So until you reach that point, enjoy having a good time with 2 human beings you like, and don’t overthink it.
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But my momma always say that someday I’d meet the receptacle just right for my suppository
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Water sucks it really really sucks.
High quality h20
Vicki valencourt
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Went on a date with that lady I got pregnant a little while ago and I’ve got to say:
This shit is fucking great for an NA; minimal ingredients, not a whole lot of additives, and it tastes like any high-quality IPA (although my memories of real beers are slowly fading after 5 years of sobriety(!!)). The hops hit hard 
I have to agree with this. I drink Lacroix and similar shit all day. That’s also what I’m going to tell the doctor when I get brain cancer
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Can’t tell if joking but just throwing general advice out to guys to get a vasectomy. 
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Dude, my daughter isn’t even out yet and she already made a sample pack. Totally worth the investment, imo.
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Went out with M again last night, and didn’t get home until midnight.
I couldn’t finish, but she had a fantastic time. We’re going to work on that together. Personally, I think the height difference was a bit more than I thought (she is 6 inches shorter than me), but I have no doubt we can learn to work around that. I have to break things off with D today.
Yeah, so much for just enjoying things and taking my time. Look, waking up this morning, I feel like I made the right choice. I think D is very nice, but M is just so much more intellectually stimulating, and she’s opening up and getting nice too. The more I talk with M, the less I worry about all the stuff that worries me about her. And we know for a fact this isn’t just orgasm talking. Pillow talk sure, but not the altered state of post-nut (un)clarity. Does not help D’s case that she is about another 4-5 inches shorter than M, so the height difference there would be even more to overcome.
Plus, she said she’d cure diabetes for me. And she’s working on the PHD in computational drug design that actually makes that a distinct possibility.
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That’s actually ideal for her - she can wear high heels with you. And you will love it when she does, trust me on that 
Happy for you it’s working out.
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I had to take a moment to find the context for this one…
Last night I actually had somebody hitting on ME for a change. So now my life has 4 people in it. Hmph. To be honest I’ve never been more excited and hopeful before. If I play my cards right, I might even be able to start a polyamory - but that’s kinda weird when two of them aren’t friends with the others. Help🏳️
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I’m going to recommend a book called “The Ethical Slut” that I heard about from someone on here a few years ago now. I can’t help you, I was stressed just seeing two women. Start to mix in more people and other genders and varying sexual preferences/heirarchies… shit I’ll stick to my monogamy thank you very much.
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Thanks, I haven’t found any good books to read recently and this might be helpful, too.
Been enjoying my time with M the last few weeks. She’s been interested in my music, and I’ve been enjoying sharing it (as well as other music I just like) with her.
When I was over at her place this weekend, I took my music laptop and was showing her how a song is put together, and we had a lot of fun with me just showing her what different synths can do. And because I was just trying some random stuff, we ended up with some very cool sounds that I wouldn’t have gotten otherwise.
She likes the cutoff knob a lot, and thinks Diva sounds the best, so she has good taste XD
Anyways, I’ve been wanting to get an RMD ADI-2 Pro FS for a few years now, and this has pushed me over the edge because it would be less boxes for me to carry back and forth than what I have now with my dedicated DAC/Amp that I usually use. And it gives us two headphone outs with independent volume control so we can both hear what I’m (we’re?) working on.
She’s on Mac and I’m on PC, but I’m thinking it would be good to get her set up with her own DAW so that she can play around with this stuff while I’m not there.
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