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What more thought does it need?
One guy said some horrible shit, another guy not only took it personally but instigated a beating of the first man.
Some other guys came and nearly killed a guy because someone told them he said some stuff.
Who's the nice guy in the scenario?
You pretty much just described the cycle of domestic abuse.
finally got all the errant crap off my main hdd and reinstalled.
I only installed sonar so i could focus all my energy on making tracks.
It worked!i am currently working on a new track and it is finally coming together!
looks like i will actually finish this one!
The question that matters the most is can you forgive yourself? Forgiving them is pretty far down on the priority list as I see it.
Maybe there is some lesson in there for you. Maybe you got something from it. Maybe it was simply bad fucking luck. Not sure you know but my GF was held like hostage for a few years through the use of violence, threats and terror. Raped is not suffice to explain what happened. Today she is the strongest woman I have ever seen, yes she has her flaws like we all do. In love its easy to forgive. She says she is like she is cause of what happened, she says she forgives it, but has she forgotten it? Will they be forgotten in the end? Will they be in her heaven? I have no idea. Her nightmares are getting better as we go though. Maybe one day we can look past peoples transgressions no matter severity. Maybe there is a fair judge at the end of the tunnel passing a good judgement. Maybe some people are here simply as demons dragging us down into the ditch while others are like angels who light a path (I believe in this personally by experience). Though my bad experiences has mostly taught me something there are somethings I can't say I'm glad happened. Maybe sometimes we forgive things that we shouldn't even have forgiven?
So you have been to hell. Now question is have you found that love. If not don't give up searching for it, you will find it one day.
Shit simply happens. Why? Who knows? What is the matrix unless a world in which believing is not easy.
God doesn't rule earth though. Thy kingdom come on earth as in heaven, so its no surprise earth is a shitty place, there is humans at the rudder.
If we can pull through believing given these circumstances its a pretty big feat in itself.
Bumpy ride to death ensured trying getting good bounces on the rocks and grabbing as much stars as you can.
Last edited by Crude_beats; 24-03-2015 at 10:08 PM..
Forgive accept and move on. You're not judging the people who fucked you over, you learned it. For one you might inspire someone to continue the negativity the people who fuckednyou planted in your head. Second your soulmate could resemble someone you "hate" and you'd never know because you judged them to be an asshole and walked away.
Learning something from every person does not mean they are honored for that. Historians, Psychologists , Police all have something to learn by studying every person. It gives us a whole picture of what humanity is capable of. What we are all capable of if we are not careful. Power, money and things in life corrupt and put people in situations they may not even thought themselves capable of.
Realizing that. Realizing that we all can do terrible things is a good thing. Thinking you are above acting human is a mistake.