On bad relationships… for men and women.
Creepiness and users… and those with bad character…
Creepiness…ive seen some use it troll guys or shame them for shallow reasons…
its a defense mechanism dont get butthurt just respect that she doesnt like you or feel safe around you…
But if its trolling flip the script and reality check the person trolling you.
Women that use dudes…
Dont get butthurt about this and write 20 billion word essays about it…everyone is aware of everyone…you are not speaking truth to power…
- Just bye felicia those people
- Have self respect, focus on yourself…to weed those people out…
- Dont be naive…nor get emotional.
- Dont write essays just use a soundbyte.
Those with bad character…
Im talking about amber heard and the trevor bauer story…
Reality is its like shitting into a fan…save yourself…dont become someone elses human sacrifice…
Truth is people know who they can take advantage of and mess with…
watch out for them trying to hurt you by using stuff like the 48 laws of power…or by falsely accusing you, or by talking shit to harm your reputation…
the why is that sometimes its just emotional revenge and other times you are just a convenient scapegoat/sacrifice…
But really these occurences are as old as human civilization dont think you are gonna change anything by being a mens rights activist…cause your not…
If you experience something like amber heard…even if you have feelings for the person use your brain…because fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me…
basically be stoic and unphased as possible
For some will take advantage of your feelings for them and use your feelings against you as a way to hurt you even more… when this happens you gotta realize your sleeping with the enemy…
dont try to make peace or resolve it…make up your mind to defend yourself with reality checks…you make peace when you have some leverage as a form of self protection
The best option is to walk away at any sign of this and cut them out of your life…
Disclaimer. Im not condoning domestic violence.
Men and women dont treat each right and continue the cycle of shittiness to each other…
To be clear this is about how not to be taken advantage of by maneaters…
For women
Boys try to be men, some men fail at being of good character, some are creeps and degenerates/hedonists, screen them for your own protection…
Have self respect and dont let anyone use you or mistreat you…
You dont deserve that shit…
Walk away and avoid those people…
If they persist…and dont get the message…do what you gotta do to protect yourself. Because its either you or them…so be a survivor instead of a victim.
Dont let any trauma youve experienced change you into a monster.
Im not a women and i dont want to mansplain…
Overall watch out for people of bad character dont become someone elses human sacrifice… do what you gotta do to survive…
Also overall men and women gotta treat each other better…